Friday, 31 July 2015
Bomb blast in Maiduguri
5 people have been confirmed killed after a bomb strapped on a tricycle went off at the popular Gamboru Market junction this morning.
Photos from the aftermath of the Gambari market bomb explosion
Photos: Akon in Lagos, meets with Kcee
The horrific moment man stabbed 6 people at Jerusalem gay pride march
This is the horrific moment a knife-wielding ultra-Orthodox Jew 'stabbed six people at Jerusalem gay pride march three weeks after he was released from prison for identical attack 10 years ago. The man jumped from the crowd at the annual Gay Pride march yesterday and started stabbing people. Six people were injured but fortunately no one died.
Anambra governor, Obiano increases salary of state workers by 16%
Toke Makinwa rocks wedding dress for new magazine shoot
Wednesday, 29 July 2015
Monday, 27 July 2015
Tonto Dikeh shares a mirror selfie to debunk pregnancy rumor
Tonto Dikeh who now bears Mrs on instagram showed off her hot bod and said she had to hit the gym..
Tonto Dikeh shares a mirror selfie to debunk pregnancy rumor
How to Get Men to Chase You
You’ve probably seen those women who seem to grab men’s attention no matter what they look like — even if they have no makeup, unstyled hair or plain clothes. Those women have something that you can learn — an understanding of how men operate, and a strong sense of self and purpose. By nature, men like to play the “hunter” role in the dating game, but you have to do your part to encourage it.
Step 1: Have a purpose to your life, such as volunteering or an engaging career or hobby. Your life cannot just be about men. This lets guys know that you are not targeting them and if they want you, they are going to have to do something about it.
Step 2: Find out what really matters to you and know your own opinions on controversial topics. This enables you to engage in intelligent conversations, once the guy finally decides to approach you.
Step 3: Develop self-confidence so that no matter what he says, you can hold your own and defend your points of view. You become more of a challenge and will likely spark his competitive side. He will have to grow and improve his knowledge to hold his own against you.
Step 4: Always have a life or appear to have one. If he calls you for a date at the last minute, make sure that you are busy. Not snapping up his last-minute date ensures that he calls earlier and plans ahead. He decides that you are not at home alone waiting for the phone to ring. If he thinks you are going out, he will likely fight harder to keep your attention and will want you more because he has competition.
Step 5: Avoid appearing desperate at all costs. This means no midnight booty calls, no texting right after a date, and no calling him 20 times a day. Play it cool so he feels that he is fighting for and winning you instead of you just giving yourself to him.
15 Things People Who’ve Just Broken Up Hate Hearing The Most
It is hurting to experience a break up. For some it can be devastating. However there is a healing process to every loss. Most times the best way is to deal with the pain and move on. Through this sensitive period a broken up person needs the concern and consideration of friends and family, and trust me there are certain things they wouldn’t love to hear.
1. Life is hard
This makes the subject seem to be another unfair victim in the cycle of life. Shooting them such words doesn’t serve as a succor but a shot at bringing them to how painful the present situation should be for them. Rather saying something like, “there is a way out of this,” will help them heal better.2. You made a mistake all along
Singling out the subject and wanting to make them appear stupid doesn’t structure the situation in a green, but a red light. We all do make mistakes, some even get away with their heads high, so why should he or she seem like the most ideal candidate for a break up.3. You have always being poor at relationships
At a time when he or she is mourning something that would have appeared perfect, listening to a crucifying statement will only make them feel less worthy. Try to build their morale by telling them, “you haven’t met the perfect person yet.”4. You can still be friends
No one wants to be friends with someone who has just bruised their emotions. I don’t, and I know every other person neither. Please don’t let a broken heart hear this.5. You need some time to heal
As if he or she was going through a terminal illness or some devastating disease. The injury of being hurt shouldn’t be aggravated. Of course time will heal the pain but you don’t need her or him to hear this.6. I am sure they will regret this
That is hitting on a soft spot. You don’t know how much or how deep your friend still feels for their ex. Besides who knows if there will be a reunion. Never cancel out possibilities.7. You are too emotional
This has a lot of red connotations with it. Of course, it takes some emotions to lose someone you have always cared about. Why make them seem less human.8. You should have known
Apparently this should mean that he or she should have been a fortune teller or something. No one in a relationship knows how pleasant or unpleasant a relationship will become. Of course they would never have known. Only things that will help them see the bright side of moving on should be heard.9. How long will you keep crying?
Please treat a broken heart with respect. Don’t limit or set anymore boundary. They would love to be more expressive at this point.10. Cheer up
This sounds like a cliché. As if cheering up is a tablet to healing the pain. Of course the effect of such wouldn’t be as sweet. Understanding the situation would be more ideal than saying anything awful.11. Such is life
This sounds poetic. As if life wants to deal a big blow on lovers and broken hearts. It is better to have them hear something considerate.12. You will receive a call soon
This doesn’t sound nice because it will make them expectant for something that may never happen. False hope raising expectations is not something any broken heart will love to hear.13. You are a strong person, you will be fine
How can this be ascertained? It is mockery to a broken heart. No one is not emotional or doesn’t show signs of being human at some broken point.14. You have to deal with it
As if there was some hammer or weapon for that. Hearing this hits a wrong nail into the wall. Make a broken-heart realize they have been through a lot rather than reminding them that being a super-human would be more ideal.15. Other people are far worse off than you are
Is this considerate at all, as if there is a race to become a better broken heart? These words show some comparative test. It is best to find a sentence to show that they can be weak at times.When dealing with a broken heart it is best to show your actions rather than say too much. As a broken person, we would love to hear your deepest concern rather than taunt us for our terrible situation.
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